The Day Everything Changed: My First Step From Grief to Growth.

I didn’t choose this story, but I’m choosing what I do with it now.

The day I became a widow and a solo mom was the day my life split into before and after. For a long time I didn’t think there would be a “next”. But here I am, writing this, and walking proof that healing is possible, even when it feels impossible.

  • The Raw Reality

I won’t sugarcoat anything in this space or in general. The grief is deep and overwhelming at times, a lot of the time, most of the damn time. The lonliness hits hard, like a boulder to the face. The silence after the kids go to sleep? It’s unbearable at times. But what I’ve learned is this: grief doesn’t shrink, we grow.

  • Why I Started This Blog

I needed a space to be real. Not just the highlight reel or the brave face I put on everyday. I wanted a space to talk about widowhood, young and old, raising kids while grieving, rebuilding my faith, and finding joy again, without guilt.

  • What You’ll Find Here

Stories. Tools. Encouragement. A space for other women who are healing, growing, and figuring it out in real time. Whether you’re newly widowed, years in, or supporting someone who is, this blog is for you.

You are not broken. You are rebuilding. And I’m so honored to walk this road with you.

Want a gentle way to begin your own healing? Download my free guide: 10 Journal Prompts for Healing After Loss. It’s the tool I wish I had in those early days.

— La 💙

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